This work is reflecting my concepts on my gender, marriage and parenting. The sardine can is filled with soft bird feathers which surround a shell which holds a wedding ring. These are questions I have had to ask myself. To marry or not? To have children or not? There is no right or wrong answer to these questions but a calling to look honestly at your constructs about your parents in your eyes. This is important work and a gold mine of healing can happen in this work, gently chipping away as you move through your own life span.